Adoptees in Maryland Need Your Help

Identity can be a complex beast. Adoption can take that complexity to another level. For many domestic adoptees, our legal identity is transformed at, or shortly after, birth. Our adoptive parents complete the formal adoption process, and we are issued a second birth certificate. A ‘rebirthing’ if you will.

Our second birth certificate, or amended birth certificate, is a legal document which states that we were ‘born to’ our adoptive parents. Our original birth certificate with the names of our biological parents is sealed by the state and is only viewable by court order (if you’re lucky enough to get one). The same process takes place with any legal adoption, including stepparent or kinship adoptions.

A year of firsts: Celebrating the holidays and Older Child Adoption in 2020

It’s often said there is magic in new beginnings. From changing careers to learning a new hobby, the process of doing something for the first time comes with hard lessons learned, new territory conquered, and ideas that make life a little brighter. The Barker Adoption Foundation knows life is full of “first” moments, and how the support of a loving family makes navigating the unknown that much easier. In 2020, Barker’s Older Child Adoption Program, Project Wait No Longer, placed four children with loving and permanent families, and an additional 16 finalized their adoptions. For many, 2020 was just the beginning of holiday memories that will last a lifetime. 

Marriott Foundation Recognizes Stephen Hersh’s Life of Service--With a Gift to Barker

Marriott Foundation Recognizes Stephen Hersh’s Life of Service--With a Gift to Barker

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Stephen Hersh has received recognition for many achievements over the years. Trained in pediatrics, general psychiatry, neurology, and adolescent psychiatry, he’s won numerous acknowledgments for his work on child and adult health and disease, and he was an early leader in bringing mind-body interventions into mainstream medicine.

But a surprise acknowledgment he received on his own front porch this spring was among the most meaningful because of what it will mean for families served by the Barker Adoption Foundation.

INCLUSION AND ADOPTION: Seen. Valued. Chosen.

Seen. Valued. Chosen.

The year 2020 has brought many different things to different people. For many of our families, it has brought the opportunity to welcome a child into their home. Barker truly believes that every child deserves a family, and we strive to be inclusive of all families who can create a safe and loving environment for a child through adoption, and who can commit to meeting the needs of that child.

International Adoption During COVID

International Adoption is Certainly an Option During this Time of Uncertainty

Have you found yourself frequently thinking about growing your family during the pandemic? Well, you’re not alone!  Time that was once spent with friends, at the gym and out to dinner is now less structured for many (though not all – we see you parents of school-aged kiddos).  Some people are finding that they have more free time to dedicate to thoughtful consideration of the “when” and “how” they will grow their family. If international adoption is one of the options you’re considering, “What about COVID?” is a question that Barker staff hears often.  You are not alone in wondering how intercountry adoption has been impacted during this challenging and uncertain time in our world. 

Barbara Donesky, LCSWC, LICSW

Barbara Donesky has more than 20 years of experience providing individual counseling, couples therapy/marriage counseling and group therapy. Her style is interactional, holistic and strengths-based. Barbara facilitates two support groups at Barker- Parents of Adopted Teens and Older Children Support Group and the Parents of Young Adults Support Group.  Recently voted as one of the top three couples counselors in Washington, D.C.  Much of her work with couples involves healing from infidelity, which can be sexual or emotional.

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